The Royal Chelsea Flower Show

The RHS Chelsea Flower Show is a renowned garden show held for five days in May by the Royal Horticultural Society (RHS) in Chelsea, London England. Held at Chelsea since 1912, the show is attended by members of the British royal family and attracts thousands of visitors from around the world, eager to see the latest in horticultural excellence and garden design.

The Terrence Higgins Trust is the largest HIV charity in Europe, of which I am proud to be a London Ambassador and Speaker. The Trust plays a crucial role in supporting individuals affected by HIV and in raising awareness about the condition.

One of the standout features of the world-famous RHS Chelsea Flower Show is the Terrence Higgins Trust Bridge to 2030 Garden. This garden, created by award-winning designer Matthew Childs, serves as a powerful symbol of the progress made in the fight against HIV since the 1980s. The design takes visitors on a journey through time, from the initial fear and stigma of the 1980s to the present day, where advancements in medicine allow people to live long, healthy lives without HIV holding them back.

During the show, I was honoured to be asked to speak at this significant event. In my talk, I used the metaphor of being a rose who turned into a cactus after receiving the news that I was HIV positive, and then started to bloom again. This metaphor illustrated my personal journey of transformation and resilience in the face of adversity.

Being part of such an event, which honours all those involved in the fight against HIV, was deeply moving.

The atmosphere was one of celebration and reflection, acknowledging both the progress made and the challenges that remain. During the event, there was a cellist playing beautiful music in the background. I took some time to think about everyone’s HIV journey, including my own. It was a moment of introspection, letting the garden and music wash over me as I reflected on my feelings when I first found out I had HIV and the many years of self-stigma that followed.

Now, I am finally in a position to advocate and be seen. I hope that my visibility gives those who find life challenging a sense of belonging and hope. I see you, and I want others to know that they are not alone.

By sharing our stories and supporting one another, we can continue to make strides towards a future where HIV is no longer a source of fear or discrimination. Love From Aunty Lou xx

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