Hello and welcome to anyone who is ready to talk I'm here.
Hello,
Hello,
I am newly diagnosed as well and I’m just gagging my way around this. I’m here if you want to vent I get it.
Hello... I think it’s funny I
Hello... I think it’s funny I call my the boop. I just am not ready to say what it is but yes I have 3 boys all mini adults thank god so they help me a lot. I am single not ready yet to mingle but the guys keep finding me and I have a hard time disclosing. So I just disappear on them.
Sweet deal
That's great my kids don't know yet we are going to til they are older and tell them cuz my girls are young. I just wish sometimes's that ppl could stress less and be more educated on the situation it would save loads of madness. a good thing about the name B12 is my kids know that B12 is a vitamin that we take in-house so they think it's that when they hear me say it. I understand that it can be a serious problem to talk about in some case's but find the peace of mind that u need inside, pushing ppl away can make things worse on u self, try to take things slow and steady, and when ur ready to speak just ask hypothetical questions on the subject it can help or hurt but taking things slowly it may turn out better than u think. how long has it been? I'm almost 4 years + I'm sad around the time frame cuz I'm really good with dates so it's like a super lazy day I use to be sad hurt and angry just all out stressed and drink wine, things are better cuz I'm super silly and my family is too. I'm glad for u by the way family team support really makes everything more helpful.
Newtothis21-- What's the
Newtothis21-- What's the hardest thing about disclosure for you? (if you don't mind my asking?)
Just knowing they have the
Just knowing they have the option to judge me and the reactions are hard
Is dating hard for you
Is dating hard for you Red40something?
Nah. ;-) I was hoping to
Nah. ;-) I was hoping to offer support. My best bit of advice is how you feel about yourself in your status and journey has a lot to do with how people receive your news.
hey
not telling everyone that helps me go through it.
Hello
Hello
I just found out in February of this yr. I have went in stages of anger... sadness...disappointment...embarrassment and acceptance. My kids are older so they know and they help me out when I need. I am glad to have this group to talk to though.
That's great
Sry it's been a few days I have lots of health conditions myself that have me going up and down it's been a pretty hard week and I do hair so I've been on my feet due to the graduation and the holiday. Thats a good start with the family I mean but yes everyone goes through it at times I still feel like I didn't protect myself enough and y the ppl didn't say anything. But I have love from my husband all the time even though he feels like he is the reason for everything but it just feels good to know someone else cares.
Other than that how have u been are u undetected now I am and I feel great but man those first sets of shots make u feel crazy due to me being scared of needles in all.
I am undetectable thank god.
I am undetectable thank god. I hate needles as well but now it’s my life
I HAVE BEEN crazy
So I have LUPUS as well and my body has been fighting with me they changed my meds cuz of the tylenol causing my liver and kidneys to overwork I'm not at my best but I wear a smile for my family, but they have been doing everything around the house so I can take a break and now I'm on bed rest. How has yr week been?
Sweet deal
lucky u lol keep it going
I have been good. My son
I have been good. My son graduated this yesterday from high school so I have been running around getting it together. I hope you start feeling better.
@Tinker, healing vibes for a
@Tinker, healing vibes for a quick recovery. Lupus is difficult to deal with.
@Newtothis21 Congrats to both you and your son! Its his accomplishment, but moms always play a role!
Thank you I am really proud
Thank you I am really proud of him. I still have one more to go then all my boys will be done in high school. Hope all you ladies are having an awesome day
Tired
I’m not sure but is anyone else tired of the dating life… the guys are all I’m ready to see what life throws at us then I tell them and yea they back out faster than lightning and leave me wondering why did I waste my 10 min on them
LOL... off and on.
I've been at it a long time having just turned 49, soooooo...ummmm.... Yeah. Somedays its a pain in the bootay and lately it really sucks. However, there are times when I enjoy it and miss it. You gotta kiss a lot frogs to find the Charmed One, lol
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I would like to thank u for giving me a chance to vent, it's tuff somedays being B12+ is more stress on the mind once the body is more accustomed to the changes. Do u have kids? I have 4 and have been married for years now its a very beautiful feeling when u can talk to ppl that know what u did will or even have gone through. None the less I am more than happy to help u feel better and show that it's not all bad it's just the first step of the new u.