Words have tremendous power. That dumb ass saying about sticks and stones makes sense to say to kids, because its coming from an adult perspective with the experience of having learned to deal with the pain of harsh words. Theoretically. I didn't appreciate that expression as a kid, and I don't appreciate it now.
In reality, many of us are still dealing with the trauma and impact of words. Often, it's not even the words themselves, but the emotion implied and felt when they are thrown at you. Continue reading...